Why Travel Makes You Awesome
People always ask how travel has changed me. If I look back at who I was before I began traveling and compare that to who I am now, I would have to say that travel has made me a better and more well-rounded person. I’m way cooler now than I was at twenty five when I first left to explore the world.
Simply put, I’m a lot more awesome now than I used to be.
In fact, I think travel makes everybody a more awesome person. We end our travels way better off than when we started. I’m not saying this to be conceited or egotistical; I’m saying it because I believe that travel is something that makes you not only a better human being, but a way cooler one too. The kind of person people gravitate towards and want to be around.
You become like the Dos Equis guy.
How and why does travel make you more awesome? Let me count the ways:
More social – It’s sink or swim on the road. You either get better at making friends or you end up alone, crying each night into a pillow. You learn to make friends out of strangers and get more comfortable talking to new people. When I first started traveling, I was kind of an introvert and uncomfortable talking to those I didn’t know. Now, I’ll happily talk to strangers like we’ve been best friends for years.
Better at conversation – Travel not only makes you comfortable talking to strangers, it makes you better at it too. After talking to people all the time, the same questions get boring. You start to even bore yourself. After a while, you don’t care about where people are from, where they are going, how long they’ve been traveling, and yada yada yada. Those kinds of questions don’t actually tell you anything about the person. You’ll get better at small talk and how to ask interesting questions – the ones that matter and tell you more about the person.
More confident – You’ve traveled the world. Hiked Mt. Everest. Dived the Great Barrier Reef. Wined and dined that beautiful French girl in Paris, navigated unknown cities, and conquered your fear of heights. In short, you did awesome things. How can you not be more confident? How can you not be sure about your abilities? After accomplishing so much, you’re going to feel a lot more confident in your ability to achieve anything you set your mind to.
More adaptable – You’ve dealt with missed flights, slow buses, wrong turns, delays, bad street food, and much, much more. After a while, you learn how to adapt your plans to changing situations. You don’t get mad, you don’t get angry, you just alter what you are doing and move on. Life throws you curve balls and you hit them out of the park. Why? Because you’re awesome like that.
More adventurous – When you become confident in your ability to do anything, you do anything. Last week in Austin, Texas, despite not liking spicy food, I ate the world’s hottest pepper and some pure capsicum extract. Why? Because I wanted to. What’s the purpose of life if not to break out of your comfort zone? My mouth was on fire for ages but I’d do it again.
More easy-going – All those mistakes? They did something else for you, too. They made you more easy-going and relaxed. Why? Because you’ve dealt with all those errors and you don’t care. You go with the flow now, because if travel taught you anything it is that it all works out in the end and that there’s no need to stress.
Sexier – Stress causes aging. Those carefree, relaxing days on the road are going to make you more confident, radiant, and age slower. You’ll look young and sexy. Unless you are George Clooney, who definitely got better with age.
Smarter – Unless you sit at a resort drowning your brain in frozen drinks, travel will teach you about the world. You’ll learn about people, history, and culture, and arcane facts about places some people could only dream about. In short, you’ll have a better understanding about how it works and how people behave. That’s something that can’t be learned from books; you can only pick it up with on the road experience.
Less materialistic – On the road, you learn just how little stuff you actually need. You’ll realize that all that crap they sell at the mall is pretty useless in leading a truly happy life. Coming home, you’ll find yourself a minimalist simply because you realize what you need to live and what you don’t. As they say, the more you own, the more it owns you.
Happier – Travel simply teaches you how to be happy. You’ll become more relaxed, more confident, and see the world as a brighter place. How can you not be happy about life after all of that?
Think about all the famous, successful people in the world. How many of these qualities do those people exhibit? A lot. Why? Because being outgoing, funny, social, happy, confident, and smart are all qualities that make people more successful in everyday life.
Travel makes people better people. When you learn more about the world and the people in it, push your boundaries, and try new things, you become a more open, outgoing, and awesome person. All the people I’ve known who have traveled are better people ’cause of it. With all the ways a trip can make you more of an awesome person, there’s no reason why you shouldn’t be planning your next adventure now – whether it’s around the world or just a short two-week vacation to Mexico.
You can sit at home, wishing you were somewhere exotic, having fun, and doing something cool.
Or you can listen to Kid President, stop being boring, and do something awesome:
The choice is yours.





92 Comments
Agreed! I’m sort of a high-stress, quick to worry, and always prepared person and the more I travel the more adaptable I become and all that other stuff just starts to melt away. There’s something really freeing about traveling, being increadibly happy, and not letting the little things get you down.
I can attest the truth of these points… because I’ve also traveled far and wide in the last few years. Among my own realizations:
* Being social on the road pays off, even if I still don’t have it as easy as you do (being introduced by friends helps a LOT, though)
* Overcoming the fear of the unknown and rather embrace and conquer it.
* Get to know the world as it really is, not as others tell you it is like.
* Realize you actually need few possessions to get by in life. I now think twice about buying something that can’t go with me on the road. In fact I’d rather be having a garage sale.
* I think I haven’t been through enough travel mishaps, though. (knock on wood!). But on the few times I’ve had one like a date change or a connection delay, I had to put up and find out how to solve it. That not only creates character but also helps build confidence.
* Get to know your own true self.
* And perhaps best of all: Have enough stories to tell and pictures to show.
I sense a new blog in your future!
Travel makes me more fabulous! ;P
So true, all of these. I think travel has really helped me be more confident about approaching other people and taking chances that I may not have otherwise taken. It’s definitely helped me embrace who I am and what I’m passionate about!
That is, for lack of a better word, awesome. Travel really does benefit a personality in many ways – organisational skills, planning skills, and also a lot of interpersonal skills. Travel is good for you
I couldn’t agree with this post any more, I got back to the UK two weeks ago from 2+ years away in Asia & Australia. I had the time of my life & already planning my next few years away. Everyone is commenting on how different I look, all I’ve done is coloured my hair…
Just yesterday i was saying to my travel partner, that who seriously needs the 10 pairs of jeans & piles & piles of tops that I have come home to. Charity shop here I come…
I agree with all of your points! I’ve taken a year hiatus from traveling, and I’m honestly finding it’s taking a hit to my confidence and making me less adaptable than I used to be.
Thanks for reminding me that I need to get back on the road
Incredibly excellent post, Matt.
Having met you, it’s hard to imagine that you were ever introverted and uncomfortable around strangers.
What have years of travel done for me? Well, you should have known me before!
This is an excellent post! It inspires me to be a better person, travel more NOW, and be more awesome! I truly cannot wait to leave my job and go live abroad while teaching in Spain. At this point Im not sure where I’m headed in life and that’s ok with me as I know I will end up somewhere better than a dull cubicle with a good salary. Thank you!
Why travel makes you narcissistic …
Where you see narcissism, I see awesome.
This is so true. The world is an amazing place, so how couldn’t we become more amazing by seeing more of it!
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So true! I couldn’t agree more with all of those points. Travel really helps a person become more confident, sociable, independent and, well, awesome!
Cheers.
What a great post Matt. I’m “bookmarking it” and keeping it as a reminder. We took a 5-month trip to India with my family, and my kids now 7 and 10 are already asking where are we going next… it’s a beautiful experience that no book can bring. Thank you for the reminder, and for the motivation to keep saving for another trip, and to be “more awesome” some day soon.
You’re welcome!
I agree in a lot of ways – travel has made me more fearless and helped me realize what’s important in life. At the same time, I tend to lose it when I’m back in a fixed place (like I am now in Melbourne) and in a Western country. I wonder if the perspective change is something that everyone can hold onto – namely, me!
The most important thing that travel has taught me is how to enjoy the moment. It’s something that I often lose sight of in the humdrum of daily life. Travel distils what is important in life.
On a more political note it helps you see through the crap the media drills into us about refuges and see that people everywhere are just ‘people’ who want their kids to grow up happy and healthy and live a safe and productive life. Yep there’s an election coming up in Australia this year!
All sooooo true. No more than the last two in my humble opinion….
I find myself caring less & less about stuff (until it comes to motorcycles… there, I am as weak as 12/yr old meeting bieber)
Stuff just comes down to props for perception…. and I think travelers already understand that who someone is or who they are themselves is way more interesting.
Definitely agree with all of these points! One big one I would add is compassion. I think many of us lucky to come from developed, well-off countries don’t realize how hard some people in the world have it, or we know but just don’t really care. When you meet people from these countries when you travel, you really see just how much is happening outside of your own little world. I think it makes us all more likely to start caring a little more about people in difficult circumstances around the world and maybe (even better!) start doing something about it.
I like that quote “the more you own the more it owns you.” I think backpacking highlights this more. I hate carrying stuff, or buying anything they will make me check in my bag.
I was reading somewhere about the idea that you will be happier with the thing that lasts longer. But, research shows that the same never applies to traveling because the memory of a visit somewhere lasts way longer than any material thing. I guess the question is, how much would you value the memory?
Agree with all of these, especially with the sociable and better conversationalists part. I was a really shy person before I started traveling, when I had no choice but to talk to complete strangers about stuff much more involving than the weather or where I was from. I also believe that traveling makes us much more aware of our surroundings- we become considerate of the people around us (even if they are complete strangers).
Love this post!
I haven’t traveled as much as others have but so far, I have noticed I became less materialistic and more practical. I used to buy something that looks more stylish than practical, now its the other way around I prefer the ones that are much practical.
This is a great article. I LOVE Kid President!! So does my 5 yr old daughter!
Love Kid President, great pep talk!
I just gave my notice at my job, leaving at the end of next month after 10 years of working in low paid hospitality jobs and very little travelling. I plan to build a website with a blog and just start travelling. I have a small budget so I have no idea how long I can keep going for or how it’s going to go but figure I can wing it.
Just want to say its blogs like yours showing me it’s possible that stop me from talking myself out of it and for that I thank you.
Excellent post, Matt! This is so true. Travel can make anyone into the Dos Equis guy…. even me.
All of these are so true! It really pushes you out of your comfort zone, makes you take risks, try new things, new foods, new languages. Gives you some perspective on things and not be so insular.
Matt – Now that you are settled in NYC and have time to relect, where is your favorite place in the entire world out of all the places you have been during your travels? Where would you go back to in a heart beat and where would you never go back to?
I can’t pick a favorite. It’s like picking your favorite child.
I totally agree ! I love pushing past my comfort zone. I’m currently traveling with my two kids (the youngest, 5, has a broken leg). As much as there are moments during the day when I wonder what I was thinking, for the most part, it beats the heck out of staying home. We’re all happier when we are going somewhere and seeing/learning something new.
Awesome post! Thanks Matt
Awesomely said…
What a great reflection on your experiences and how you’ve developed and matured with travel. It certainly does teach you to adapt and go with the circumstances.
I love your well thought out article.
Thanks!
I love how many of you used the word “awesome” in your comments!
I really like and agree with your observations – thanks for a great post. Travel definitely makes you a more interesting and open-minded person.
To take it a step further, the more awesome people we have out there in the world, the more awesome will spread. That’s a good thing for the world.
Yup, I agree and I feel pretty awesome right now
Good sum-up of true stories and another post to send out to all the people who are still unsure if they should and if, when and…
There are plenty good reasons to travel – one of the best are the people out there!
In the game of life, you’re #winning. (‘awesome’ is a bit over-used these days, so lets use the Charlie-Sheen term ‘#winning’).
I agree with all you say about travel, I’ve never been happier than when I’ve been travelling. For those who love novelty and new experiences, becoming a nomad is definitely the way to go, and the zen-style minimalism is definitely appealing also.
Sadly, most people simply don’t get the opportunity to travel for long periods, so you are very lucky to be able to do so. Traveling takes money , and yes, I know you say you *can* do it cheaply, but the reality is that even $50/day location-independent income is a tough hurdle for most people to cross. I’ve never been able to do anywhere the amount of travel I liked, because I’ve never been able to solve the rubik’s-cube of location-independent income.
The times that I’ve been able to travel for months on end were the times I got very lucky. So always bear in mind the role luck played, and thank your lucky stars for the life you’ve led.
You’re #winning Matt. Keep #winning
You make some fair points. Definitely food for thought. Nevertheless, I still agree with the post and as a beginner blogger hope to someday be able to have a travel blog. I’m truly inspired. Great stuff!
I really need to go to paris
Don’t we all!
Great post–your points are awesome!
Inspirational! I am heading off on long term travel in only a few months now and this is just what I needed to read!
So true. I grew up in a small town in TX where people just don’t leave. The first time I left the country you’d of thought someone died. Several years later when I went to Russia alone it was the same thing; hand wringing. Traveling changes you. It changes the world you see and live in. It most definitely makes you more awesome.
I’ve always believe that travelling will make me more confident, being better at conversations and the highlighted points you mentioned.
Have always been this person who doesn’t dare to take risk. Have been doing small travelling quarterly as much as I can ever since I’ve started working about 3 years ago. I want to keep reading your blog in hoping I can take the risk I’ve always wanted to make.
Keep writing mate, you’ve kept me going by stepping small stones all these while!
Agreed on So many levels. Travel is awesome and indeed makes us well-rounded, adaptable human beings. Thanks for this awesome post Matt!
Travel brings you lot of knowledge, and with knowledge comes confidence and attitude! I may not be traveler my self but i respect those who do lot of traveling.
Even planning your next trip opens your mind and makes you both freer and happier. After a difficult year dealing with the death of my spouse I decided to book a trip for 2 months to Europe. I used to wake up in the morning thinking of him. Now I wake up dreaming of my future travel. I won’t share traditional pictures because I won’t take a camera. One thing I learned no my first European trip was, my sketchs and watercolors spoke more than any my photos, they meant more. You learn what is important and what is not fast. It puts life and people in perspective. People get along, governments fight.
This!
Great shout with Kid President – he is such a dude! But you also put it well yourself, don’t think anyone (though try they might) could argue that travelling is anything but awesome with all the points you put forward. Unless, you don’t want to be smarter, happier, sexier etc.
I think everyone wants those things.
I think there is one thing that you had not mentioned that really drives it home for me. Travel makes you humble (though ppl may accidentally come off as arrogant / excited to share everything at the same time).
It teaches you that the world is bigger than you are, that people’s problems are the same no matter where you go (or even worse in some). Travel teaches you to appreciate the little things you have and the things you never realized you did.
Like you mentioned, travel opens up your eyes and your world, but for me, more than anything else, travel opens up your heart.
Good reminders on how travel adds value to your life =)
Very good point.
Awesome article, and I agree with everything. Makes me feel like a more awesome person.
Of course travel makes you awesome! i think it has something to do with the crazy people you meet along the way.
You know, I find that when I travel (especially alone), I’m at peace. I never worried about the daily stress, for my mind is too occupied with soaking in new images, information, and culture. I can’t wait to feel awesome (and share my awesome self) with the world when I travel this summer!
There, I used awesome twice..
I’ve been nomadic for the last two years and recently my parents flew out to visit me in Australia. They commented on how much more at ease I was with everyday tasks, nothing seems to phase me anymore. I no longer worry about mundane issues that used to stress me out. I’m more confident in the company of those I don’t know and feel I can hold my own in situations that stretch my comfort zone. All thanks to my experience of travel.
EXACTLY. Grabbing a flight to a country where you don’t speak the language and don’t know the exchange rate…then landing and realizing you have no idea how to get to your hostel (what was it called again?). No problem.
This is all so true!! I have always thought the same thing about travel. It makes me sad when people fail to see the benefits of traveling and I am so glad my parents started me young, giving me the travel bug from very early on
Great post mate! Such good reasons to travel. For me the biggest changes have been more adventurous, more confident, and of course more sexier.
That’s all so true, but the only problem is you don’t know about all of these benefits, until you start your traveling. And when i went abroad for the first time and thought: “Why did i spent almost all my life in one city?”
I feel more alive when I travel.
Absolutely love this. It’s all so true and I agree it makes you a better, all-round confident person. I definitely feel more awesome after travelling the world solo. Great read!
Yes, traveling has taught me a lot of things. I am no more inclined in materialistic desires.
Yes! Agree with them all; although the point I agree most with is how traveling has made me less materialistic. It has shown me how little I really need in every day life and during my travels!
I think we can go even deeper on all the words you’ve said, and that’s also part of the magic of traveling around. I myself love going most places, and even if it’s for staying there lazying under the sun, wow, that’s great for the fact that you can rest far from all the tiring routine you end up having at home. Great post!
It’s sad that so many people wait so long to find out how incredibly awesome it makes you feel to travel the word and experience so many things about themselves they never thought they could do. Travel does indeed make me happier. Thanks for the great post!
I love this post, but the end bit made me a bit sad: “You can sit at home, wishing you were somewhere exotic, having fun, and doing something cool. Or you can listen to Kid President, stop being boring, and do something awesome”
As someone is not a full-time traveller, I have to wait for my trips and right now am waiting (only for a week but nevertheless…). I want to go away again!!
Agree!
Before I went travelling I worried way too much, planned everything and was never really relaxed. Now I just bought a bicycle and spontaniously decided to ride to China from Bangkok, without having any idea how to get there- or how to fix a broken bike.
I’m so much happier now, and I’m sure it’s because I’ve been travelling for quite a long time now. I love speaking to strangers and make super cool friends all the time. Leaving home a year ago was probably the best decision I’ve ever made.
Great post
Travel has defiantly changed me for the better. It opens your eyes and your heart. You make new friends and learn to appreciate the ones that stick by you.
I completely agree with all of these statements. Travel has changed me so much and I am so grateful that I’ve chosen to take the opportunity to see other parts of the world. I left at 22 and now over four years later, I’m a much more independent, adventurous, well-rounded and mature person than I was when I started. Cheers to more adventures!
Dude this is a epic blog post, well done.
As a traveler you see new things, eat new foods, meet new people, participate in new activities and are constantly doing all these awesome new things. Whilst you are doing all these awesome new things it’s with awesome new people. And with these awesome new people you meet you share your awesome new stories and get awesome new ideas to go on more awesome new adventures and with that how could you not be awesome when you are surrounded and involved in so much awesomeness, its AWESOME!
To travel is to truly live
I couldn’t agree more.
You have found the right words to spread your message. Perfection of life is: being inspired by the world, so you can inspire others. Pura Vida!
Pura Vida to you too!
So, I agree with all of these benefits of travel, but I’m not sure all of them are sustainable after re-entry. Maybe that’s just me, but I’m now *worse* at conversation when it doesn’t involve travel!!
This is an amazing article and could not be more the truth. Awesome is exactly what we all are and can be when we realize how many choices the world truly offers to us. My objective is to make it possible for as many as possible to adventure the world so I do appreciate your precise insights, commitment to continue creating and the profound insight that is injected into your writings that flows well with the “facts.” Everything I have read from you is playful and practical.
Thank you for showing so many how to travel and for answering questions of mine that have come up on my 26 month + journey
This lifestyle is the way to go and all of the things you are saying are true!
Pura Vida!
Mandy Love
I definitely agree with all of the above awesomeness.
I’d like to add another.
I’ve found I have more trust & curiosity of strangers / new people. I have become a CouchSurfer & hostel user in recent years, & people at home are shocked. They have complete fear of things I’ve done, & continue to do, that have brought me some of my most amazing experiences – simply because I trusted others.
Also, I’ve encountered unbelievable generosity & kindness from strangers. People at home cannot fathom why people would be so kind to a stranger. It saddens me a bit.
Great article Matt!
The speak for the little kid really is very inspirational!
Travel really does make you awesome, it changes you into a better person and helps you grow!
Kid President is awesome.
Completely agree Matt! Travel is such a great connector of people…no matter where I go or with whom I meet, I’m able to strike up a conversation using travel as the conduit. I think travel has been my greatest educator and believe it to be nourishment for the soul!
What a wonderful article. Thank you for reminding me of all of these things and articulating so well the benefits of travel!
strangers are just friends you haven’t met yet
Huge enjoyment from this Matt!
This is the fact that a lot of people are around the world who devoted their live to travelling and the guys who are only dedicated to travelling are happier than all other. Secondly I am a bit surprised how much times this blog post is shared on social media platforms. Hats off to your blogging style and the way you write.
travel has made you a much more awesome person than it has me! haha
These are great reasons and I am happy to be traveling as well. I can relate to you. I am happier, more content and relaxed.
Hell yeah! You get to know your better self. You become more a more unique person.
Nice read
Right! So many reasons can be pointed out by a traveler in order to love traveling . The most important point which you have mentioned here at the last – “Happier”. Travelling by this reason absolutely favorable.