Posted: 10/17/19 | October 17th, 2019
I read many different kinds of books. It’s not all travel. Last month, I shared some of my recent favorite travel books. This month, I wanted to share the non-travel books that have had the most impact on my life and feel have made me a better person. These created paradigm shifts in my thinking. They just made me go “Ohh damn!”
They got me interested in new ideas, literature, personal development, and so much more.
If you’re looking to improve your life, change a habit, expand your mind, or just want something interesting to read, here are twelve of the most influential books in my life:
1. 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, by Stephen R. Covey
One of the most famous books in the world, this book taught me habits to create a better lifestyle including planning out your week, sleeping more, being proactive in life, the importance of creating win-win situations, and the importance of continuous improvement. It articulated the small things I forget to do to make me a more organized and thoughtful person. If you haven’t read it, you really must! This book will help you become less mindless in your actions and more thoughtful overall. Even if you pick up just one tip to better organize your life in this chaotic world, it will be worth it.
2. The Power of Habit, by Charles Duhigg
Why do we do what we do? Are we hard-wired to repeat habits, even when they are bad? How do we break them and form good ones? This bestselling book discusses how we form habits and gives specific strategies about how to break the bad ones and start good ones. It really made me think about the negative habits in my life, why I keep doing them, and how I can change that. I started thinking of all the excuses I tell myself that keep negative habits in my life. Because of this book, I started sleeping at a more regular time, reading again, drinking less, and being more productive. I can’t recommend it enough.
3. Titan, by Ron Chernow
The biography of J.D. Rockefeller and his rise to power is long, dense, and worth every second. Rockefeller was a fascinating man – ruthless in business yet a devout Christian who founded some the biggest universities and health institutions the world has even seen. While I have no desire to be as ruthless as him, this biography was a good lesson in how frugality, slowness, and thoughtfulness can lead to success in life and business. J.D. never moved quickly, was financially conservative, and always reinvested in his company business. His methodical thinking made me rethink how I made business decisions.
4. Losing My Virginity, by Richard Branson
Richard Branson’s autobiography was super interesting (this guy does a lot of insane things) and it inspired me to create my non-profit (FLYTE). I’d been thinking about it for years but reading how Branson just went for things he believed in and worked out the details later inspired me. It’s in stark contrast to Rockefeller, but Branson’s “why wait?” philosophy on starting projects makes a lot of sense. There’s never going to be a perfect time to start something so why wait? Just like there’s no perfect moment to travel, there’s no perfect moment to do something great. Just take the leap!
5. How to Win Friends and Influence People, by Dale Carnegie
Dale Carnegie’s multi-decade old, but still relevant, book was instrumental in helping me shut my mouth. Ignoring the sensational title, this book ties heavily into what the 7 Habits of Highly Successful People says about listening to when people talk, not being a know it all, and empathizing with others as a way to connect and then influence them. As an introverted person (see Quiet below), this book helped me learn to talk to people better…not in a Machiavellian way but in a way that made me better at handling social situations.
6. Quiet, by Susan Cain
I’m an introvert in an extroverted world. I would rather read books and sit by myself than be at a big party filled with strangers. I know that sounds weird since I travel all the time and meet people but when I’m with my friends, I get social anxiety about meeting strangers. This renowned book looks at why the world is so extroverted, how that affects us, and lessons for dealing with both introverts and extroverts. As I read through it, I saw myself in the author’s examples and her author’s lessons on balancing your inner and outer space helped me deal with my social anxiety.
7. What Got You Here Won’t Get You There, by Marshall Goldsmith
Written by a management consultant, this book is a guide for executives to become better managers. However, it’s much more than that. It’s a book on how to listen, behave, and think better. Its premise is that if you want to jump up to the next station in life, you’ll need a different set of skills – not educational skills – but interpersonal skills. Successful people interact well with others and this book talks about the small things, like looking at your phone during lunch or multitasking at a meeting, that send signals to people you’re not really there. This book got me to focus on my relationships more.
8. Mindless Eating, by Brian Wansink, Ph.D.
Every day we consume food but how aware are we when it comes to what we eat? This book illuminates the insidious ways society creeps in larger portions and mindless eating habits on us that make us gain weight and develop bad skills. This isn’t a book that’s going to just tell you to eat healthier, it shows all the ways society and commercials indoctrinate us to subconsciously eat more food, from growing plate sizes to bulk shopping to “super sizing it.” This book changed how I think about food, consume food, and guard against the insidious nature of calorie creep! I’ve stopped my mindless eating and have been a lot healthier since.
9. The 48 Laws of Power, by Robert Greene
Written by legendary writer Robert Greene, this book features 48 rules for living a masterful, powerful life. It features historical examples that reinforce the rules and what happens to those who break them. Slightly Machiavellian, I’ve found these “laws” helpful in dealing with my business, strangers, and situations where it is good to have the upper hand (like when you want to argue a bill with Comcast). I find these tips to be more helpful in a workplace environment than in everyday life (mostly because I have no desire to “rule” people or manipulate my friends). It’s oddly very stoic in parts. This book made me think more strategically in my life.
10. Fast Food Nation, by Eric Schlosser
When I was in college, a friend handed me this book and, after reading it, I became a vegetarian. Actually, I tried going organic but, in 2002, organic was even more expensive than it is now. This book opened up my eyes to the crap we put in food, the horrible conditions animals live in, and how poorly we treat food workers. Organic, locally grown, and sustainable are all buzzwords these days, and while people are definitely more conscious of what they eat, I still feel like we are too far removed from the farm. Understanding where our food comes from is essential in changing how we eat and this book did just that…and still does thirteen years later. Making better food choices leads to a happy, healthier life.
11. The Ecology of Commerce, by Paul Hawken
When I was still working in a cubicle, I did a lot of volunteer work with the environmental organization, The Sierra Club. I wanted to meld my desire for success with my passion for the environment but I didn’t think the two were compatible until I read this seminal book on sustainable development. It opened my eyes to the possibility that you could create a business and be environmentally-friendly at the same. More that, it changed my consumer habits, helped me make more environmentally-friendly purchases, and showed me how I could be less wasteful. It was one of the most influential books I read in my 20s and was the reason I decided to do something that changed the world. I never went into sustainable development, but I like to think this website makes a positive impact in the world.
12. The ONE Thing, by Gary Keller
You can’t walk into any bookstore these days without seeing this book prominently displayed. Short a book for a flight, I finally picked it up – and devoured it. It was excellent, and a really quick and easy read. I loved how he framed everything around asking yourself what is the one thing you can do to make your life better – daily, weekly, yearly. He hits so many negative aspects of our lives spot on – multi-tasking, the psychology of switching, to the power of planning and systems. This book reminded me of the things I knew to do but wasn’t and it was the wake up call I needed to finally do them.
13. The Checklist Manifesto, by Atul Gawande
While this book talks a lot about the systems hospitals and doctors used to reduce medical errors, there is a lot to be extrapolated. There’s power in checklists; they ensure nothing is missed and help you verify the work that has been done. He even quotes my old boss from when I was working in healthcare (who helped pioneer surgical team processes). Reading this book changed how I view procedures and how this website operates (my team actually has procedure documents for everything we do) but it also gave me the idea to create lists and structures in my own personal life.
14. Les Miserables, by Victor Hugo
I read this book when I was 14 years old. At the end of class, when we would get five minutes to chat to friends, I’d take out the unabridged version of this book and get lost in Hugo’s world. This book made me love reading. It turned me on to the power of the classics. From there it was on to Dumas, Dickens, Austen, and so many other 18th and 19th century writers. I’d blow through their tomes in school, captivated by their vivid imagery and detailed writing. And, in turn, these books improved my writing, vocabulary, and love of literature.
15. When Breath Becomes Air, by Paul Kalanithi
At the age of 36, Paul Kalanithi was diagnosed with Stage IV lung cancer. In this beautifully written book, Kalanithi tells his story up until the end (his wife writes the post-script as he did not finish the book before his death). This powerful book (I dare you not to cry) ruminates on what makes life worth living in the face of death. What do you do when you know you don’t have much time left? We all die but I think most of us never really think about it. It’s just something that happens far into the future. This book will make you think profoundly about your life and what you prioritize.
16. A Farewell to Arms, by Ernest Hemingway
Ernest Hemingway is my favorite author of all time. Apparently, he was a huge jerk, but he wrote like few others and his writing always moves me. When I was in high school, I read this book and it made me want to be a writer. When I finished it, I said, “I want to write like that.” In fact, in tenth grade, I tried to write a novel that was very much like this book simply because I wanted to be like Hemingway and copying him was the best way I could think of to become a successful writer. I had visions of being a young writing prodigy (spoiler: I was not), however, I kept that loving of writing and a few years ago my dream of being an author came to fruition. Somewhere a 16-year-old me is smiling. Even if you don’t want to be a writer, read this book. It’s one of the best books ever written.
So there you have it. These books made me reshape my life – often in drastic ways – and I’ve never once regretted reading them. They are thought-provoking and I encourage you to read them, if not to at least to see a different perspective on things.
If you’d like to see some of the other books I’ve recommended (or are currently reading), check out this page I created that lists them all.
And, if you want future suggestions, sign up for my monthly book club:
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Ryan Biddulph
Hi Matthew,
Richard Branson inspires me to do so much too. The guy has conquered many fears to build like, what, 12 billion dollar businesses? Imagine how much resistance he had to face and dissolve to become that successful? So I imagine his latest read rocks, as I am seeing it all over and hey, he wrote it.
Awesome list here.
My fave success book of all time is Think and Grow Rich. I have not read it in 8 years but when I did, I went through it so much that the dog-earred pages began to fall off. I memorized it almost, I read it so much. But then I did something fun, when I was asked about it by a girl named Rambo in Cambodia; I gave it to her. True story. She asked about it, and because she spoke and read English easily I gave her the read. Then I noted how she should translate it to Khmer and get it published through a house in Cambodia for all the rocking people in her land.
Thanks for sharing the inspired list Matthew.
Ryan
Lii
I love reading the books people recommend, I think it tells so much about the person as well! I found “How To Win Friends And Influence People” a very useful book as I am not good in social situations and I often come back to the advice he gave on the book. I would really like to read the book about Richard Branson and put it on my reading list now! What made me fall in love with classics, well at least really intrigued, was Jane Eyre. I had always thought that they were all very boring! I am sad how little time I have for reading books and I have to rotate which type of a book I read, so that I get a mixture of classics, modern classics, self-help, biographies, history and others. My current reading list is over a hundred and each month I add more than I have time to read. Which is why, unfortunately, I do not sign up on any book clubs, but occasionally I take inspiration from posts like these, so thank you for this one!!
Jon Espina
I also love reading novels and fiction. But recently I’m starting non-fiction. I just have this habit of buying too many books then ending up not reading all of them.
A few month ago, I bought The Power of Habit, I think this is a sign that I should start reading it now. This is a great list!
Lavinia
Awesome. I love reading books and I also fell in love with “les miserables”. Great 🙂
Harga Marmer
Books open your mind, broaden your mind, and strengthen you as nothing else can.” -William Feather
Roxanna
Some that are surprises, and some that are not.. I have not read the Richard Branson bio, so I need to check that out. For me it was Fitzgerald, rather than Hemingway, who convinced my teenager self, that I should write
Luca
Richard Branson’s book is by far the best in this list. You might want to check out Rober Cialdini’s Influence. It’s a great read.
Giovani Freitas
I started reading The Power of Habit and it is really a mind changing.
I made a checklist with all of these books to read 🙂
Pilot Mark
I love reading while I´m travelling, my kindle really comes in handy to keep my hand luggage light! I read “The Incredible Lightness of Being” lately and found it full of wisdom and musings about life and love.
Sandro
The road less travelled should also be a must-read. It’s an easy to read book which really opens you up to elements which may be holding you back in life. For a somewhat small book it has a lot of value to offer.
Liza Skripka
Great list of books, I´ll definitely read how to win friends & influence people, I can think of many situations where it could be useful, even more when meeting unknown people in distant places.
Lisa de Jong
I imagine that as a travel blogger you have to be quite entrepreneurial. And that certainly shows in your recommendations. I’ve also read some of those and it’s certainly a nice list of good reads.
Bacith M
How to win Friends and Influence people is really a good book.
where my boss asks me to read this often.
Good Post !!
Oliver
Jean Val Jean of Les Miserables was my touchstone for good characterization when I was a teenager. Now… he still is.
Thanks for posting this, Matt. 🙂
Brittany
My ‘to read’ list just got way longer. How to Win Friends and Influence People has popped up on a few lists, and just made it to the top of mine. 🙂
Brian Maddock
Before heading to Africa I recommend Dictatorland – The Men Who Stole Africa, a brilliant background to the corruption and exploitation of a dozen developing nations. Author Paul Kenyon
Pat Hemphill
Alas I don’t have much time to read books these days, as I research and find infinite knowledge via the internet. A couple of all time favourites are ‘The Power of Now’ by Echard Tolle, The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho, and because I love paleontology – The Clan of the Cave Bear series by Jean M Auel, which I often compare our modern lifestyle to.
Reading is an incredible doorway to self-discovery and adventure! Happy reading.
Keri
I sobbed the entire time I read When Breath Becomes Air and it is still the first book I will recommend to people to read. I still think about it years later.
Several of these books are in my TBR pile! I will never get through them all, but I sure will try.
NomadicMatt
Such a powerful book.
Kathy Cope
I’ve read a couple of these but it was Quiet that I loved most. (Fellow introvert ?????) I was reading through, identifying all the extroverts in my life through the traits she described in the book! Spot on.
david aneja
hey matt , hope you doing well, just loved being on your blogs everyday
I wanna ask have you read the 4 hours work week?
Rachel W
Thank you for the recommendations, I have definitely been given some inspiration.
Another great book is “intentional thinking” by Dale East, it is about living in present and letting go of any worries and anxieties that are in either the past or future that hold you back from living and enjoying your life on a day to day basis.