Among long-term travelers, there seems to be a certain degree of competition, a one-upsmanship if you will, over who can visit a place while spending the least amount of money. It’s a badge of honor to say, “Well, I did France for X dollars cheaper than you,” as though the cheaper you go, the more authentic your experience might be.
I have seen this attitude expressed on my site when I share my cost of traveling posts. There are always a few people who say things like, “Well, I think you overspent, because I did it for half the price.”
I’ve never understood this cheapness competition. To me, being a backpacker or budget traveler has nothing to do with how much money you spend. Rather, it has everything to do with how you spend it. Just like how you don’t have to have deep pockets or a trust fund to afford to travel, you also don’t have to live on a shoestring to call yourself a budget traveler.
One of my biggest pet peeves is this obsession with cheapness that I see among a lot of travelers. I’ve never understood why a person would live like a pauper while saving money for a trip, only to then go on that trip and still live like a pauper. If you only have a small amount of money to spend, better to take a shorter trip doing all the activities you want than constantly saying, “I would love to do that but I can’t afford it” on your longer trip.
To me, traveling is about being frugal – not cheap. It’s about not wasting money on frivolous stuff. Not snacking or buying a million tacky souvenirs or going out and getting drunk every night. It’s about knowing when and where to spend your money, no matter how much you happen to have.
Can places be visited for dirt cheap? Sure. You can be like this guy who mooched off Europeans for 12 months and thereby only spent $5,000 USD. He spent hardly any money by squatting, hitchhiking, never going out, not visiting one museum, and getting free stuff from people. That’s a great way to travel cheap. I’m sure the locals really appreciated him giving back to the community the way he did. But beyond that, if you camp, cook all your own meals, don’t drink, or never do anything extra that costs money, you can always go somewhere and spend very little.
But to me, I don’t see the point.
Whenever I visit a place and then do a budget guide for it, I always admit that I overspent. Without a doubt, you can always visit a place cheaper than I did. I overspend because travel is my everyday life, and I like to treat myself once in a while. It’s why I include not only what I spent but also discuss why I overspent and how much that country should really cost.
But my guides reflect my idea of what a budget traveler is: someone who spends money smartly, not cheaply. They are for the traveler who wants to go away, perhaps doesn’t have a lot of money, but still wants to enjoy lots of activities.
To me, I didn’t visit Italy to skip the nice meals and gelato. I didn’t go to Bordeaux to turn down a wine tour. I didn’t spend over a year saving money so I could cook cheap dinners every night in a hostel kitchen. I didn’t go to Australia dreaming of the Outback to turn around and say, “No, that trip is a bit out of my budget. Maybe another time.”
I remember when I first went overseas. I did everything as cheaply as I could. I skipped doing a lot of things I would have loved to do in the name of “budget travel.” I never took that cooking class in Italy, I skipped diving in Thailand when I first went away, I never did a wine tour in Australia, and I never went inside the Tower of London.
I regret those decisions to this day.
I said I’d do them next time, when I had money. But you know what? Next time has yet to come. Other things have gotten in the way.
Everyone has his or her own view of what a budget traveler is. To magazines like Budget Travel, Travel and Leisure, or even writers like Rick Steves, “budget” means $120+ USD per night hotels and $40 USD meals. I read those magazines and look at their prices and go, “How is THAT budget travel? That is expensive!” But I guess, for their readers who have a bit more money and are most likely solidly middle to upper middle class, those prices are budget.
At the same time, some people will look at my budget guides and say, “How is THAT budget?” There are always ways to do places cheaper if you are willing to make the sacrifices. Personally, I love camping, tenting, and cooking my own meals – when I’m in the wilderness. But as part of a day-to-day travel lifestyle? It’s not for me. And based on my experience, I don’t think it’s realistic for the majority of travelers out there.
One of my biggest budget tips is to know what you want to spend money on before your trip, and then use that as a basis for forming your budget. That way, you don’t overspend while on the road, because you prepared as much as possible. You won’t come home early because you got blindsided by costs.
If you are aware of your costs, you can better plan your budget and then be frugal with your money – without being cheap. Because you won’t get a second chance as often as you think you will. Spend your money on those great activities that you have dreamed about instead of skipping them just because they come with a price tag.
Travel isn’t some race to the bottom. You aren’t a better traveler because you went to France and decided not to spend any money. That doesn’t make you a budget traveler. I think that just makes you cheap. I think the conversation needs to shift from “cheapness” to “frugality.” A traveler who spends his money wisely, no matter how much he spends, is a budget traveler.
Because frugality is cool. Cheapness is not.